i am a female and what i would bicurious?? i have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 yrr, but i have always had a feelings for certain women around me.. there is a woman who works on my floor, who is beautiful to me (not like model-beautiful..but just stunning to me: her beauty, her style, etc) and when she comes around i trip over my tongue or freeze... i find myself thinking about her often. anywho.. i don't know what to do. i am stuck.. afraid? i don't know... what would you do if you were in my situation?

I'd do nothing. She's a coworker. And in any case, unless she's interested in you, there's not much you CAN do.

what I would do 1. Subtly find out if Bifemales together turns on your BF (most likely it does) 2. Hint that youre bicurious 3. Assuming you get a positive response, suggest that youd like to do it with another woman with him watching. 4. Given that most single Bifemales arent interested in being a third for a couple, try to find another couple in the same boat (via CL, or AFF, or whatever) and set something up for you and the other woman to fool around while the guys watch. If your feelings are ONLY for this woman, then you have other issues to deal with. If your BF is not positive to female biness, you also have other issues to deal with.

thanks a lot... that cracked me up "hi, i'm XXXXX and i'm bicurious" if someone walked up to me and said that - i think i'd quit. lol i appreciate your advice.. i decided to come clean with my bf last week about her and how i feel. it was hard, mostly bc i was scared of what he would say and how he'd look at me afterwards, but he was completely accepting of the truth and didn't shun me.. i was still scared tho. i'm curious to see where this will go, but scared at the same time. thanks a lot for your input and opinions...it helps. it really does.