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2010-12-20 17-09-13 |
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Husband unwilling to work for business
A few months ago my husband and I started a business, right before we got married. Lately, he has been unwilling to work for the business. Business was slow today, so he decided to play video games. I told him to pass out fliers, and he said he'd get to it (around 10:45am). At 11am, he was still playing video games. I shut the video game off. And told him he needed to pass out fliers. I'll admit, turning off the video game was harsh... but it is the middle of the day on a Wednesday for crying out loud. I am a full time student, so am preparing for midterms. 2 hours later he comes home after passing out flyers. He thinks he is done for the day! I ask him how many hours he is willing to devote to the business, because if I had known it was 2 hours I would never have started the business. He refuses to answer. He says he is done for the day. 2 hours! Business is slow, and if things continue in 2 months it will be bankrupt. I really don't understand why he isn't taking this more seriously. I can't believe he would rather play video games than do whatever he could to try to save the business. I told him as far as I was concerned we were no separated. I didn't know what else to do, he is playing video games over taking steps to prevent our financial ruin! I feel divorce is the only way to go, and that I feel like he is acting like a child. What do you guys think? BTW our bank account was bleeding money which he was spending on weed and alcohol. I had to take his debit card away from him so we could pay our bills, and it took it back without telling me and spent another $100 on weed. I really can't picture my life like this, and I feel like getting out before we have kids is the best thing. I love him, but I really can't live like this. Before we got married, he had fully agreed that I would be in charge of the finances (and I was fully in charge of finances), but lately he has been revolting against my financial guidance in childish ways.
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