it means she doesnt want you

it means that they can take care of themselves emotionally and financially and aren't a needy bitch

Ok swc, if se then let me ask you this: if she is all that, then why even date, why ever be with the oppposite sex, why even have friends?

just because a person can take care of themself and don't NEED someone to take care of them doesn't mean they don't enjoy the company of others - the difference is wanting vs needing besides - sex is fun - and hanging out with friends is fun